Thursday, August 21, 2008

Life kicking my ass, 2.0

Last week I felt pretty good about things. Meg had finally started sleeping better again and both kids were healthy and happy. Flash forward to this week and it's a whole different ballgame.

Poor Andy has been sick all week. And sick to the point that he just cries and screams a lot. It's pretty awful to see and listen to. He seemed much better last night, but had a bit of a lisp. I was worried he was having an allergic reaction, but after an earlyish call to the doctor on call (second time this week) he said without a rash, it was not likely to be a reaction. Phew. Instead it turns out, I discovered late tonight after staying home with him all day, it's a miserable cold/canker sore on the tip of his tongue. I can't see it and Andy won't show me, but Bjorn says he has. Ugh. He was so awful tired and cranky this evening, he went to bed at 6:15 p.m. only to wake up crying about every half hour. Bjorn went in to console him and now they're both asleep together at 7:48 p.m. I am probably not far behind.

You know, just when I think I've got a handle on this whole motherhood of two/working mother thing, something pops up to reassure me that I don't know jack. Thanks, life! I know, this is all temporary, everyone will get healthy again. And then I see pictures of older siblings (like this blog from a woman I went to Emory with) and I smile knowing that we're not too far away from Meg and Andy being able to talk to each other and have a real relationship and that makes me incredibly happy

4 comments:

  1. sorry you are going through this. Sounds like hell. To the other side of the illness! NOW!

    Saw your folks and sister and her darling children this past weekend-They are wonderful! Ben's uncle died, so an emergency trip to Little Rock with quick stayovers in Dallas...

    I wish you some rest and Andy some too...

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  2. Hey there! So sorry to hear that Andy is ill. I once had both with strep and the one thing that seemed to provide a little comfort (if you can get him to put it in his mouth) is to swish with a little malox (sp) or any of those stomach coating upset tummy medicines OTC. They are pepperminty, so that might help. Not to swallow, but swish and spit.
    w

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  3. Hang in there. You got two great looking kids. I tell you everytime I look at the top of your screen and see Meg's cute little round face it makes me smile with delight. And I can tell Andy is going to be a teenage heart throb. So enjoy these moments. In a few years you will have different concerns.

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  4. That sucks about Andy. I hope he feels better soon. Luckily, it's not like there's a whole lot going on for you at work right now--not like an annual meeting to prepare for anything.

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